Benefits of dating a shorter man
A girl who is 5'9″ is obviously going to think most guys are pretty f*cking short.
Once you're towering over him, he's ready for you to get back down to his level.
It truly blows that something so seemingly silly could be such a cause of discontent. Also, he’s small, so he isn’t exactly the cookie-cutter vision of masculinity.
Sometimes you just want to be thrown around in bed by a big, hot stud. You find yourself saying things like, “But he’s really sweet! He likes to brag about his career and how successful he is.
When I say "short," I’m talking like 5’7" and under. He may have a beautiful face, killer abs and a stellar personality, but all you or anyone else can seem to focus on is that your boo is a tiny little munchkin.
I’m not wearing heels so I can be a solid 5 inches taller than you (and that’s in kitten heels)." When you do wear heels, he immediately realizes the error of his ways.
Check out this equation: Dating Short Men = Uphill Battle. I haven’t conducted a study of my own on the subject, but I can assure you that scores of women of every type will say they simply aren’t attracted to short men.
While the school and college years are typically defined by conformity and image consciousness, one’s adult years – say, one’s 20s and 30s – are intended to be periods of growth and individuation.You used to love being a tall, sexy woman, but now it just feels like a problem over which you have zero control.Your internalization of the patriarchy makes you question why you’re dating him. You feel insecure about it, and that makes you feel like a huge dick. We love them, we hate them, and sometimes we date them. But even me -- a gal of 5 feet and 4 inches -- has problems. When you’re out in public and people look at you, you wonder if they're thinking that you're a girl with a short boyfriend. A girl who is 5’9" is obviously going to think most guys are pretty f*cking short. Once you’re towering over him, he’s ready for you to get back down to his level.
At this point, it’s important to focus less on physical characteristics in order to pay more attention to who is going to be a good catch emotionally – and who will last over the long haul.